I dont get it

I dont get why someone would want to be cruel. WHy you would want others to see you that way, or why you would want to live in a constant state of judgement. Sure everyone does it, but why would you want to put yourself out there as a person who will both judge you and be mean about it. You can have opinions and share opinions without being cruel. You can argue with friends, you can discuss things, or dislike things or people. That doesn't mean you should go flaunting those preferences.

I cant understand why anyone would want to be that kind of person. and I vow never to be that kind of person.

My goal, for the rest of my life, is to be a positive person, and seek to find the good and the beauty in the seemingly mediocre, the inconsequential....and the crap. because God knows that things are here to teach us. We are here to learn. We are here to witness. We are here to grow, not to gripe. My goal is to step away from the negative things and just be a more positive person.